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My son will be 17months old when our new baby comes….Do you think he will be fine to sleep in a regular bed?

I was thinking of putting him in a regular single bed with a rail instead on getting him a toddler bed because he moves around in his bed sooooo much, and i think the toddler bed will be to small for him. He is big for his age. He is 11 months old and wears size 2 clothes. I'm sure he will be big enough to sleep in a big boy bed by then…what do u think????

18 responses to “My son will be 17months old when our new baby comes….Do you think he will be fine to sleep in a regular bed?”

  1. Trynitee says:

    As long as the bed has a rail on it i don't see no problem with it. I however didn't put my son in a toddler bed til he was 2 1/2 and my daughter is currently 20 months old and she still sleeps in her baby bed. I won't be moving her to a toddler bed until she's about 2 1/2 also.

  2. Gracie says:

    My son (a 16 month old) easily gets in and out of an adult bed. Your son will probably be just fine in a big boy bed, too. I agree that if he's already wearing size 2, you won't get any good at all out of a toddler bed. Just get the bed rail and keep a monitor on in his room, just in case he gets out of bed at night.

  3. Mollie Brynn says:

    I don't think you should. I have a 19 month old who is also really big for his age and I wouldn't dare put him in a toddler bed right now. He would be crawling out of it all the time in the night. At that age they are too young to understand the invisible boundary of a toddler bed. You should get another crib for the new baby or a crib/toddler/twin adjustable one for your toddler so when the time is right you can turn the crib into a toddler bed.

  4. auntietawnie says:

    The size of the bed really doesnt matter. Will your son be ready to sleep in a new bed by then is what you should be asking… My daughter will be 18 months when our new baby arrives and we have no plans of moving her to a different bed untill she is ready.. If you move him to soon he may have trouble sleeping and its going to be hard enough with a new baby keeping you up.. I would suggest trying him in the bed before putting the crib away just to be sure he will adjust to it.. Best of Luck and Congratulations on the new baby…

  5. Momma K says:

    I had my son in a toddler bed at 15 months old and moved him to a regular bed at 3 years old. He was too big for the toddler be by the time he was 2 and a half. If the bed is against the wall and you have a railing, I'm sure he will be okay. My son never fell out of his bed.

    Trust you instincts and try it. This is your family and it is what you need to do. Your chid will adjust to his new bed. If you are careful and do it in the proper way he will be fine. Good Luck!

  6. gg says:

    Yes, you can either put rails on the bed, or you can take the bed off the frame, and put the mattress and box springs on the floor, so if he falls out, he won't get hurt.

    I will have the same situation, and luckily we have a graco pack n play that has a bassinett in the top of the playpen. We will put our next baby in that for the first 6 months, that will allow our daughter to stay in her crib a little longer.

  7. Kay says:

    I think that you should start weening him from the crib… my son is 2 and he stop using his crib at 6- months… let him nap in the bed during the day and then when he's comfortable.. let him start sleeping in it. every night…. talk to your son… tell him about the new baby… you can let him fall in love with him before he comes home… (this works… especially if you pick a name for the new baby… and refer to the baby by his name) good so that he does get too jealous…. tell him that he's a big boy and that you will take down the crib… then you set it back up when the new baby comes… that way he will already be used sleeping in the new bed when the baby arrives and it will be easy for everyone.

  8. jslim says:

    It depends on him. My son was in a toddler bed by 15 months. He's now 2 1/2 and has no trouble with it at all. The older women in my family all thought he was way too young but he didn't give me much trouble once he was used to it.

  9. Marlene M says:

    Even if he has to stay in the crib a little while longer you can get a bassinet for the baby and the baby can stay in it until it can role over so that will give you a couple more months

  10. cazifantastic says:

    My youngest daughter is 19 months, and we have just put her in bunk beds with her older sister. She loves it! I feared having endless nights of putting her back into bed after her getting up, but she hasn't done it once! I dont think age really matters, it depends on whether the child is ready for a big bed, but try it, it cant hurt to give it a go.

  11. kelly25j says:

    I had my first son in a normal bed with rail at 12 months…had to get him out of the crib because he climbed out many many times. My second son was removed from the crib at around 16 months, same reason. I found the regular bed worked well, I left a space at the end of the bed rail so they could get out of bed without climbing. I don't believe in trying to contain a child…if they want out of bed they are going to get out one way or another. It's just important to make sure their room is safe for them, and if your worried about them getting up without you waking up use a baby monitor, then you'll hear when they are up and about.

  12. Lina B says:

    It would be a good idea as long as he can climb out of bed properly on his own just in case.

  13. jennamarae says:

    I kept my son in a toddler bed until he turned four, simply because it was easier for him to get in and out of bed by himself without getting hurt. He moved around a lot in his sleep too, so I just put a pile of pillows and folded up comforters in the floor next to him while he was in bed so if he rolled out he wouldn't get hurt. They also have toddler beds with rails on the sides to help keep little ones from rolling out of bed. I'd go with the toddler bed until your son gets big enough that he can climb into your bed all by himself.

  14. huggz says:

    17 months is very young to put him in a normal sized bed (in my opinion). I would continue to use a cot for a while longer or get a toddler bed. A rail will not keep him in and a normal height bed could mean unnecessary accidents.

  15. Claire O says:

    I cant see why it'd be a problem. Loads of people dont bother with a toddler bed. As long as he cant hurt himself if he gets out of bed in the night. Maybe put a gate up at his door so he cant get to the stairs etc?

  16. chemrose says:

    Depends on the child. I had to move mine at 16 months because they could climb out of the crib. We used a regular bed for all 3. I just went to the store and bought the rails that slide under the matress. We got 2 (one of each side of the bed) Don't use the wall as one. It may not but completely against the wall and they could get stuck. I did have one that still fell out of that little area at the bottom.
    If he is not ready though I wouldn't force it. He could then resent the baby because the baby stole his bed. You could put the baby in a pack n play for a few months in the beginning and then see if he is ready to transition to a big kid bed. He may even be willing to give it to his sibling.

  17. lillilou says:

    The bed is fine, but make sure the room is completely baby proofed.

  18. bound says:

    I don't think being physically big enough should be your main concern. Our daughter will be 20 months when our son is born, but we still plan on keeping her in the crib. Why? Because when she sleeps she is all over the crib! Even with a rail on both sides of a regular bed, she would end up falling off. I would say that you should look at your son's development and not so much his growth.

    Now, you could do what we're planning on doing and see how it goes… we already have the bed that is going to be our daughter's. We're going to have the mattress on the floor and let her take naps there sometimes. That way, she can get used to the new bed, she won't feel rushed into and if she falls, it won't be far. Since she's already down to one nap a day, we plan on putting the new baby in the crib when she's not using it. That way he can get used to sleeping in the crib and she can get used to another baby using it. For the first few months, he's going to sleep in our room in a pack-n-play/bassinet just as our daughter did. But him sleeping in the crib sometimes will make it easier for me to get chores done in the bedroom.

    Just a suggestion.

    Congratulations and good luck!

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